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wow, ok so this is a difficult question. Firstly coming out is different for everyone, my coming out experience may be completely different from yours, but this is what happened to me. I first came out to two of my close friends, it was really difficult and i felt embarrassed by it. But they were totally cool with it. I didn’t really want to tell anyone else at that point as i wasn’t completely reader to be open about it, but i trusted these friends to keep my secret. Gradually i sort of came out to more and more people, but still close friends. Coming out to my mum was not a good experience for me, as i was pressured into it by a family friend. When i told my mum she cried, and was hesitant to hug me, she didn’t say she still loved me, in fact she got so drunk she passed out on the road. I had to go pick her up off the floor, all the while she was crying saying “I’m a bad mother”. But we have never really been close, since then, and even before then. But once again, everyone’s experience is different, and i know a lot of gays who have parents who are totally cool with it.
tips:
come out to your close friends first, people you know you can completely trust.
don’t come out to your parents straight away, wait until you are older and more aware of yourself… most people don’t actually come out until they’re in the 20’s so don’t feel that you need to rush…you have your whole life
If you hear of bad coming out stories just remember that everyone is different and their experiences are always different.
if you come out to your parents, and they are angry or upset, its most likely because they are scared that you will be bullied for it, and they are disappointed because they won’t have a daughter in law or grandkids, just remind them that you being gay has nothing to do with them, its the way you were born, and having grandkids might be what they want, but not what you want, you are your own person, and being gay is not your fault or their fault, remind them that being gay doesn’t change who you are, or who they have known you to be for the last several years…your still exactly the same person…and that coming out to them took a lot of courage and that you need their love and support now more than ever.
go on youtube and search: “it gets better campaign” watch those videos, they are really good,
just remember that even though you might be having a bad time right now and feeling like life is shit, after a while it gets better. Right now I’m so very happy, i have great friends who are supportive, and a boyfriend who loves me, my life is just about to begin in a few weeks, and nothing is going to bring me down.
if you ever need to talk, ill be here, good luck :)

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